Learning how to cope with inferiority complex

Inferiority complex does exist in everybody’s heart no matter how handsome, ugly, rich or poor a person is. It bounds to happen in the lifetime of people. There would be a moment a person feels or experiences that he is inferior to others in certain aspect. It is a matter of how a person deals with inferiority complex that makes a difference. Knowing how to deal with inferiority complex could make a loser turn into a winner in life. Understanding how inferiority complex could affect our life and from there change the way we view it so as to build up a good relationship with our own inferiority complex. We could even make good use of it to change the way we live our life and succeed in our social interacting with people. As the saying goes : “ALWAYS LOOK ON THE BRIGHT SIDE OF LIFE!”. And you’ll find it a whole new world to live in.

Published by: Silvery on August 25th, 2007 | Filed under Coping with Inferiority



6 Responses to “Learning how to cope with inferiority complex”

  1. tommy7x Says:
    September 19th, 2007 at 3:53 pm

    I am suferring from inferiority comlexment.It is felt mostly when I stay with my girl freind. she is beautyful.Every time I have a idea that she will conected with any guy.but she is not a girl like that.but my immagination is that one.please help me by some advices.

  2. Silvery Says:
    September 27th, 2007 at 4:15 pm

    Hi Tommy7x,
    Thank you for visiting my Blog.

    Your inferiority complex is not a weakness if you didn’t view it as a weakness. Why not ask yourself in what way makes you think that you’re not as good as other guys? If you can list down 5 to 10 reasons as to why you’re thinking you are not good enough, then I can give you a more appropriate advice on why you have the idea that your beautiful girlfriend will be connecting with some other guys.

    Relax yourself and have a good thought. I’ll be glad to hear from you again.

    Regards,
    Silvery

  3. anandita Says:
    September 28th, 2007 at 5:04 pm

    hello!! pls help, i donno.. wat to do , how to handle ? how to talk the people closed.. i mhaving a grt feel of inferiority complex tht no my closed ones strt dislikng me..y i dont know might be.. i hav e some prob..or i m not as good.. infact some people says.. tht i m very gud frnd , every one shd hav 1 like me.
    i always keep my self very much underrated.. , since i can speak a lot, but cant say a lot..which is imp..
    i have fears with myloved ones.. as they.. dont lov as i do…
    i m not humorous,
    the person i love, is my very gud frnd.., he loved me , but now he dont as such.. i used to.. compare myself with his other frnd.it makes me feel.. like i m not good.. how to be with my closedf rnds., if i just allow thm to move easily.., they leave me…and i dont like to force anyone for anythng. so, it makes me.. feell.. tht.. how i shd..be…

    infact i know people loves. me if ill be myself.. heartly.. but i m scared to be like tht.. it seems tht , iwas too.. sweet.. everyone got the prob of tht…

  4. Silvery Says:
    September 29th, 2007 at 6:59 pm

    Hi Anandita,
    First of all, I thank you for visiting my Blog.

    I feel that you are not a happy person. It seems to me is that you’re lacking in confident in yourself and that’s why you’re feeling inferior to other people, including those people who are close to you.

    You said that you can speak a lot but can’t say something that was important. One of the possibilities is that you could have said something straight from the heart without filtering but the receiving ends could have interpreted it differently and in a way offending them unintentionally. This may be one of the reasons as to why they’re turning away from you.

    Arhh….don’t get me wrong, I have to make it clear that it is not wrong to be frank and open but the thing is that most of the people love listening to sweet talks and love flattery. Try to give praise to people who have done a good job, thank people for helping you out, console people when they are feeling down, be courteous to people by greeting them such as a simple “Good Morning”, “Hello”, “How are you?” and so on. Show concerns to people. Be nice to people and people will be nice to you in return. Smile more and people will be smiling back to you more often.

    How to talk to people tactfully is an art. You can polish your speech and improve your social interpersonal skill by doing some readings on self-improvement books/articles/Blogs. Listen to the way on how those people whom you think are better than you talk. Try to copy from them.

    No one is born to be perfect. I believe you have your superiority. Follow my above-mentioned suggestions and come back to tell me the outcome in a few months’ if not a few weeks’ time.

    Feel free to write to me and I’ll try my best to answer you. I wish you success :-)

    Yours Sincerely,
    Silvery

  5. sss Says:
    November 5th, 2007 at 1:21 pm

    hi silvery,
    i feel depressed when my friends dont talk to me when im in the group.. i feel isolated & then start feelingim no good.
    this fluctuates my mood & get in depression & wont speak to anyone. plz help me out.

  6. Donna Says:
    January 16th, 2008 at 9:56 pm

    I feel like my friend competes with me with everything I do, she is very judgemental too, and fun!… So am I, in fact we are very similar and thats why we were attracted to each other. I liked her confidence but shes also quite closed and this makes me paranoid as I am very open. Now her autonomy makes me feel low and inferior and I feel exposed. Have I just met my match?

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